Music and its hidden messages

I was thinking about Dreamworlds the other day and how the message it gives men creates entitlement.  Since women are so ready to strip down and shake their ass for men in videos why wouldn't they do it for any other man right?  Wrong!! I read this book called Confessions of a Video Vixen and the author SUPAHEAD (funny name right!)  went on and on about how hard her life was and how many men she slept with.  (Eww)  I think some men actually think that all women are like her.  That we all want to be taken advantage of and have someone rip our clothes off, no thanks.  I wish some man would run up to me pullin on my clothes! He'd get a swift kick to the jaw!  Some men don't understand that music is just that, music.  It doesn't mean that I want you to run up behind me everytime I start dancing.  I listen to hip hop and after seeing that documentary it really made a lot of sense on how men think they're entitled to whatever we have to offer.  Craziness.....when will men learn???